i am just sick again after two weeks of being blissfully free from physical ills. now it is a bladder infection and a cold it seems. well the cold came back from before, i just have been resting and drinking cranberry tea, hoping i don't have to go to urgent care--cause sometimes i need antibiotics and then well. sometimes it goes into the kidney so i need to be on top of this.

 j is being perfectly sweet. when i had a little bit of feeling better earlier, he taught me to dance how the cubans dance. he is good. i am not there quite yet.