PinkNeck: Not white collar not redneck
Submitted by honeychunks on Mon, 01/22/2007 - 12:18pmSeeing as hardly, if anybody'll ever read this, here goes:
A pink neck or pink collared person is someone who is neither a redneck, in the generally understood meaning of the term, nor a white collared person, in the generally accepted meaning of that cliche either.
I am describing me to myself. The perennial D student in school - Barely Passing in life itself. Self-taught - sort of.
Describing one whom has neither fallen through the cracks of society nor avoided them completely, I have taken up residence between them. Always on the outskirts of town, ay?
I came up with a term for my so-called poetry this AM: atonal poetry. Makes perfect sense to me. Atonal bi-polar as well. Which brings me to a perception about the kind of support that Icarus presents in the forum - and it's limitations:
1] The forum is online and thus not really trustworthy/intimate; one can only go so far in disclosing personal stuff. 2] Less clear to me is a feeling that there is pretty powerful element of the soap opera-ization of discussions, including onedownmanship. 3] There is a subtle, albeit for the most part unconscious, classism[cultural bias] going on.
Ordinarilly I would even be here if it weren't for the circumstances of Denise going to grad school> needing a computer at home> a desparate depression>me starting to fool around with the art program it> where it went from there the hard way.
More later.....
Good!
hc, I'm looking forward to "more later..."
For me, I like the anonymity of this online community. Like you, I'm used to themore initimate sharing byface to face. But there are times when I just want to get things off my chest in a different way. I understand the other feelings, too, as I've experienced them also.
It's easier for me to chalk it up to age difference/maturity level/life experience. There are times when I see bits and pieces of my youthful self in some of the posts. It can be tough at times, though.
I found TIP when I was doing research for a grad student. Not writing anything for him, more like a list of suggestions.I liked much of what I read at first. There are times when it feels like feast or famine, though. It did give me a fairly good place to be while waiting for the other stuff in my life to get into place. Not the MI stuff, the network planning. I'm assuming you've guessed what that is?
I appreciate your honesty, hc. and I truly hate that you have that depression to battle now. if I can do anything, just holler (redneck phrase :)
Skye